no more bolt

[Redo]

Bolt: I had been following your sitch quite regularly. I am so sorry you are in this position.

Wow, this really feels like Deja-Vu

So instead, we talked about everything. She spelled it all out that she's been done for quite some time and had most of this planned out. She had been faking most of it and just wanted to get the girls out of the state. She didn't want to hurt me (sure) and is sorry for that (whatever).

My wife the same exact thing. My wife filed the D on me when i was abroad visiting my parents. She took our daughter to her parents home and then filed. She said that she had been planning all that for about 6 months. It then made sense about lot of the financial changes we made right before left to see my parents.

For me in part i was happy(should i even call it that??) that she did this when i was with my family, my support system. She said she chose this way because she cared for me. Sometimes i think that it is a big BS. I dont know. throught my 11 years of marriage, my trust in my wife was 100%. I could never believe that she's capable of this. But now that trust has been shaken big time.

Hang in there man. This is when you really need to pick up the pieces and look at life as a whole, not just marriage. I know, easy to say. Hard to do.