My name is Sinclair and I have been divorce busting for seven months. I started writing here after having discovered my wife's affair. Through the advice of the members here, I moved my wife to an apartment, limited my contact with her and made firm boundaries between us. In the mean time I got a life and found my own happiness; I also have a new relationship.
A few days ago, my wife informed me that she was pregnant with OM child. She doesn't know if she wants the child. She wants to know if I'd take her back.
We still love each other very much. I've been hoping for this opportunity for so long. But I ask myself, what kind of woman would seriously consider terminating her pregnancy and breaking her relationship with the father to go back to the husband? I can't believe this is happening!
My wife and I have twenty years together. I love her so much, even in spite of what has happened between us, but I have a new girlfriend now and I love her, too. What the hell do I do?
Should I consider this an opportunity for us to work through the details or is she just have second thoughts due the finality of the situation?
My immediate response was no. I told her she chose her path already and things have progresses too far, for too long, to go back. At the same time, I feel that it could work between us and I really do want it. What are the chances of this working? Should I even be considering this as a possibility?
