Mach had some very good points and ideas, BUT, only make that calender with your H if he is going to hold up his end of the deal. I can't tell you the heartbreak of watching my D stand at the end of the driveway waiting on her Dad to show up when she was a little girl. Maybe he would show up, maybe not. She would wait and wait, and eventually come back in the house in tears.
Just don't let your son get set up for another disappointment.
