Navy, I hope you succeed creating the environment you and she need to progress. Moreover I hope she realizes and appreciates your efforts.

A caution though from one who lost himself attempting to nurture another, if you haven’t already done so look at these links about detachment http://www.livestrong.com/article/14712-developing-detachment/ and healthy boundaries http://www.livestrong.com/article/14718-building-healthy-boundaries/. They have been posted here several times.

Sorry for the threadjack.

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Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill