I have been busy with preparations for tomorrow so I don't have much time to post this evening.......However, I am saying a prayer for you that your counseling session will be just as it is supposed to be to lay the foundation for future productive sessions. I've read in some places that initially the M counsellor may make it appear that they are being sensitive to the less open spouse in order to engage that person in therapy. If the person who wants to save the M doesn't understand this, they may feel marginalized a bit. I don't know whether this might happen with you, but I wanted to mention it in case something like that happens. You are a very smart woman, so I'm sure you have prepared very well for tomorrow. I will be thinking about you! Please post when you have a chance afterward.
Thanks for your special "attagirl" today!!!!! You are not only very wise, but very sly too! As Rabbit would say "Your H is 'dead meat' if that's what you want". It's no wonder you have managed to turn your situation around.
SO sorry to hear about your snowstorm tomorrow! Ughhhh!!!!!! I know just how you feel. It has been a VERY long winter.
