Thanks Nine... I don't think that Harrier was trying to be a bad guy either. The point that negative feelings about OM may surface is well taken. But what I think was missed is that I don't hide those negative feelings... neither here nor with my W. She is WELL aware of how I feel.

And I am doing my best to deal with those feelings.

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Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce