Hey Harrier... sorry that it seems to come across as if my last post was directed at you specifically. It wasn't.
The 'proof is in the pudding' ... HA! Sorry that rubbed you the wrong way. But I do think that the 'proof' that DBing does work is in the 'pudding' of where my sitch is now.
Advice that Dbmod had been edited a couple of days ago was not DB advice. As Dbmod pointed out. I won't take it... I won't give it ... and I don't want to see others just starting in my sitch consider it ...
Sorry. That's my opinion ... based upon my experience.
That particular advice is no where to be found in either the Divorce Busting or Divorce Remedy books.
I completely understand that I still have a lot of work to do with my M... and I have learned, that I always will.
Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce