Take The Long Way Home...

[Truegritter]

FOBD

Take a look at my thread:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2056493&page=13

Start at my post #2097934 about half down the page.

I came upon the same crossroad.

And believe I got some good advice from the wise folk here.

At some point my friend you have to stop reacting to what they do or don't do according to what you want or don't want.

You have to decide who YOU are and decide from there.

Not always easy. Not always what your lawyer tells you.

Not what your Mom,

Your Dad,

Your friends,

Or any f@cking body tells you.

YOU.

Do you know who that person is?

What he believes.

What he knows without anyone telling him?

There is easy and then there is growing up.

After that is the rest of your life my friend.