FOBD, you sound like you are back to being less clear in your feelings. This is completely understandable. You need time to process everything and make sure you are 100% certain of the direction you want to head. To me, after that question is answered, the legal question becomes an easier one.

If you are 100% certain you are done and want to move on I think it is an easy answer. Protect yourself and your assets as much as possible.

BITS

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