Originally Posted By: Cat
And your W, may or may not have to accept it as well...


Ayep!

Not looking to save her from that or what she has already expressed:

My friends (didn't feel like she fit in)
My family (never felt accepted)
Her friends (treated her badly)

I said I can't help you with any of that except that I would ask you a question:

Was it YOU who was showing up? Is that who YOU are?

If so then you have nothing to worry about just keep being you.

And you will not have a problem.

I thought I heard her scratching her head on the other end of the phone.

Maybe it was my imagination...

Could have been that telltale song from that elusive cuckoo who needs to get back in his clock.

Dunno.

9 you are certainly brave to be reading that saga of mine.

I see a lot of similarities in your sitch so if it helps you keep reading my friend.

That's what it is there for.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am