Look man I am not saying be mean about it.

I am trying to get you to see

She made a choice.

That choice means certain things.

She filed for D right?

Now she is making it your fault that it didn't happen by the end of the tax year?

And you offer to rescue her.

Nice gesture BUT is it good?

For you?

We're having 4 days of straight rain here. I think it might be YOUR fault.

Damn you 2step!

Believe me I understand. I offered to pay for my W's health insurance. So she could keep seeing her therapist.

Nice guy?

Yeah I am.

BUT

If I am honest I was saving her from the cosnequences of her choices.

There is nice and then there is enabling. Or sacrificing yourself for the M.

Which one is this?

You need to figure that out my friend.

Somewhere in there is 2step. The new and improved 2step.

What does he do?

And which guy will she stop unloading on?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am