Sparks - I think you need the parenting coordination to be about how to best manage 50/50 joint custody. At first I was horrified that you were willing to help her...BUT, can you call around and bias it (slightly) to find someone interested in helping work with you from where you are now versus ending up with someone who sees your wife as the best full time parent?
Faith is, at one and the same time, absolutely necessary and altogether impossible. --Stanislaw Lem
