Hey Sanderika, Good luck with the counselling session. Sounds like you're off to a good start with the counsellor's experience. You can be sure that it won't go as you have rehearsed! The big step is H's willingness to go. I'm guessing the counsellor will have something to say about ow. I wish you the best and I will check back in to see how things go.
Last night H called and we chatted about D to start and then a bit about S and some other stuff. In the conversation he mentioned that he had lots to do today (his day off and the day he usually spends with ow) including finding me a new DVD player. It's very definitely comfortable between us and I can see the positives but I guess I am frustrated because ow is still on the scene. I keep thinking that the swimming meet will be the turning point one way or the other.
