Your W wanted you to call daycare? What the he11 is wrong with her that she can pick up a phone to call herself. Stop doing things for her! Stop saving her!
You’re right, and it bugs me now after the fact. The truth is, it is hard in the moment to not still feel like her H. And in that role it would be normal to call for her. She asks because I guess in the moment that seemed like a reasonable request from her.
It is hard to always remember where we are. It was only a few months ago we were a normal family. It is hard to change behavior so quickly. I was her H a lot longer than her LBH. My head doesn’t always quickly adjust to my new reality.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
