TBH, this situation created some anger in me. Anger because my W has created this situation. From here on out, there will ALWAYS be one of us who cannot be there for our D when she needs us. It angered me that W can make a decision to put us in this situation. Putting this OM in front of her family.
This is a natural feeling. Make sure you're the one that's there when D needs a parent.
You will go back and forth hating her then thinking things can work out.
Why even bother her. Take responsibility for your D, no one else seems to be. Your W wanted you to call daycare? What the he11 is wrong with her that she can pick up a phone to call herself. Stop doing things for her! Stop saving her!
Start thinking on these lines when she is struggling with her time. "No one said being a single parent was going to be easy. I'm sure you'll figure it out"
Why in the world would the LBH make it easy for their WAW to carry on an A?
She is in for a rude awakening once reality catches up to her.
BTW, feel free to give me 2x4s. Even though I'm far along in the process and much stronger, it doesn't mean I don't have moments where I think things could work out.
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