Is this generally true for all of us?

[Jack_Three_Beans]

I honestly expected her to insist on repair.

Quick question:
Did you wait for her to ask, or did you make changes on your own?

From DR:
"In the months or years that follow her decision, the wife is no longer trying to fix the marriage...most women have built up a wall around themselves." pg. 40

"First off you, not your spouse, are going to have to do the lion's share of the work here...you may not like the fact that this feels so one-sided, but for now I say, 'That's too bad.' That's just how it is." pg 43