Thats because Country and you know this, She is NOT the person you fell in love with. She has been abducted if you want to go that route or to call a spade a spade, part of her is intoxicated by the OM and that has her torn between being the mother she should be and this wild ride she is on.
Sorry to be so blunt. My W complained a few months ago that she wanted a Friday to herself when Oldest son wanted to see her and spend the night. She balked at that because she had "PLans".
I know what those plans were and she would rather be with OM then with her son that night.
YOU cant be 100% sure but you can take a pretty good guess.
Sorry to hit you with this and that you are feeling this way country.
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