First off I am glad that you and yours are safe and alive.
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Detachment. GAL. 180...I guess this time, I need to mean it...
It is hard not think of these terms as...tricks. When they work and you see results. It almost works against you and long term goals to have see such good results quickly, because; well they are tricks. Tricks that worked.
The problem with tricks, is that eventually people see through them. Smoke and mirrors.
When these terms, are no longer fixes? When these terms are your way of life, because you made them for you and not to win her back. Then they are real and you wife will see the real change.
They look and watch, and I believe they do for a long time. I believe they have a deep rooted fear that most people (you) do not change.
"So it is said that if you know your enemies and know yourself, you can win a hundred battles without a single loss." - Sun Tzu
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
