Just a quick update. I cannot believe it's been a week since I posted?!?! Not long ago I was on this site every minute possible. Things have settled down, we are talking about down-sizing and just living.
No real talk of the R, and my W continues to engage in "family" discussion but nothing else.
She is planning to just be friends and nothing more, which although good to a point - is not at all what I want.
I'll keep working on me, and hopefully someday she re-considers.
Me - 34 W - 33 M - 8 years T - 15 years D7, D5, D2 Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY" W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011