Well, D was acting fine this morning. I waited a few hours to make sure she was OK, and then decided to just take her into daycare rather than wait for my W to pick her up. I called her AFTER I dropped her off, this was my decision to make.
TBH, this situation created some anger in me. Anger because my W has created this situation. From here on out, there will ALWAYS be one of us who cannot be there for our D when she needs us. It angered me that W can make a decision to put us in this situation. Putting this OM in front of her family.
I continued to feel this anger this morning and it was part of my decision not to wait for my W. I felt that there was a slight chance I would not hold it in around her. I cannot put myself in that situation. Of course, if I really felt it was not best for my D, I would not have done it, but she truly did seem fine this morning.
When I called, she did not answer. I left a message telling her the details she needed to know. She responded with a text something to the effect of "glad she is feeling better!" Yeah, no thanks to you mom......
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
