I have to concur with 9 and LIS. The last thing you need to add to your plate is resentment. That can be a big elephant in every room and it will leave you with no where to go. You will just add more stress which you don't need and you don't want that for your S.
I think finding a great C will be a tremendous help for ALL of you. The trick is going to be for you and your H to follow what the C advises. The application of the new tools is always the hardest.
Sending HUGS!
BITS
M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
