Been with you from just about the beginning on your sitch. I remember the anger you had when you found out about OM. I remember a lot of people especially the bits spending time with you on this. I think you worked very, very hard to get through that anger. I also think that you have worked incredibly hard to analyze your situation from every angle, seeing what your part was in the breakdown and ultimately acknowledging the issues that were within.
I have seen many false starts within my own sitch towards reconciliation. All of them were way too soon and ultimately failed. I just don't see that at all in your situation. I see that you have been deliberate in examining yourself, making changes and seeking to understand your W. I also know that you will continue to be deliberate in the reconciliation process and ultimately in your new marriage. You have clearly imparted some incredible and well thought out wisdom here that all of us could use in whatever phase we happen to be in with our marriages.
Words cannot express how proud I am of you. Words cannot express the gratitude I feel towards you in all that you have taught me. May God bless your steps and as always, I'm praying for you.
