Originally Posted By: Bolt


We are trying to figure out MC in Ohio. I'm split between finding a MC and doing Mort Fertel's deal. Any thoughts?


I don't know much bout MF, but I am a firm believer in MC F2F counseling. I wish you could see our guy, I hear he has an opening. LOL.

Originally Posted By: Bolt

What other options do I have? I'm not sure 30 days is enough but it's better than none.

I'm trying to go back to basics with DBing too. Detachment. GAL. 180...I guess this time, I need to mean it...


30 days isn't enough time only if you don't' think it's enough. 30 is enough time to show her the changes. I think about where I was only 30 days ago. make the changes for yourself. Be the new bolt again.

It will give you time to regroup and focus on you and your kids.


Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.
--Jean Jacques Rousseau.