I'm sorry this has happened. You had one of these letdowns before..although not this bad. JTB said this to me..."She is still looking at you, she will be looking for signs, its in your goals best interest that she doesn't see any."
It sounds like she saw some of those signs (of the old you) during the move. Of course when times are extremely stressful, it's easy to fall back on old behaviors. That is where you have to work the hardest. Same goes for her, when she's under stress she goes in a certain direction.
The good news is that the move is behind you. You now have a chance to return to the changes you were made. Change isn't' a light switch, it's like trying to turn an oil tanker 180 in the middle of a storm, but I think sometimes our Ws don't fully appreciate that.
Remember, I head the words "I'm done" and "I don't love you" too.
Are you going to MC in Ohio?
On a side note, the CA filing thing makes no sense. sounds like she's not thinking very clear, but do they ever? I don't know if CA would even let you file now that you've moved your residence. Like the L said, most states have residency requirements + there can be a waiting period. So you could be looking at a good year of time.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
