Delinquent,

Thanks for the reply! I am not doing it just to get him back...I enjoy it as well, but I don't want it to ruin my DB efforts. I'm just so confused about all of this and I don't know which way to go.

I am GAL and going out and doing things on the weekends. I do not bring up any R talks and I avoid mention of the OW at all costs, but this sex thing is where the real sticking point is and I"m not sure what to do about it.

UGH!!! I never thought we would be going through this and I just don't know the best way to handle it.

I'm sorry that you are going through this as well...are things going any better in your sitch??


Me: 31
H: 30
Kids: D9
Together almost 12 years
Married almost 5 years
EA began: 8/10
Separated: 3/11