Thanks for the reply! I am not doing it just to get him back...I enjoy it as well, but I don't want it to ruin my DB efforts. I'm just so confused about all of this and I don't know which way to go.
I am GAL and going out and doing things on the weekends. I do not bring up any R talks and I avoid mention of the OW at all costs, but this sex thing is where the real sticking point is and I"m not sure what to do about it.
UGH!!! I never thought we would be going through this and I just don't know the best way to handle it.
I'm sorry that you are going through this as well...are things going any better in your sitch??
Me: 31 H: 30 Kids: D9 Together almost 12 years Married almost 5 years EA began: 8/10 Separated: 3/11