I dont know GRR. This sounds like a band aid approach and may even cause further resentment to your H. And now that resentment may extend further to your son which he may exhibit unconsiously.
This is a real tough call and one I am not qualified to make. But IMHO , I dont see this as a good thing. I dont see this as a step towards recon. but rather a step to further animosity towards you.
Please find out more about this before you make your final decision.
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