I intend to live forever - so far, so good

[awest1217]

I hear you CTH. My D is going on 8 months and considering H is living with OW and never says he wants to stay married, he is not doing what he can to get this done. I have tried everything to get it done, but I am always waiting on H which doesn't help matters because I can't move on either.

I think it will be good for you to get the D over with, not that down the road you may reconcile, but at least this way you can move on without that cord holding you back.