Am I doing everything wrong?

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I am so sorry that you are going through this.

People have various opinions about having sex with an estranged spouse.
All I will say is that if you are doing it strictly because you don't want to lose him then perhaps you shouldn't be doing it.
Also, I am sure you are smart about this but I hope you are using protection, especially if he could be sleeping with the OW.

I'm pretty new here myself so I apologize I don't have as much advice as some of the vets on this board do.