I'm not sure why you may not have gotten a reply from some otehr posters yet Angel smile

Retrouvaille can help. Whether it will depends on how much you and your spouse put into it.

There is a requirement that the A must be over to attend the program. For some people that means NC. In my case, W then agreed reluctantly to end the A, but NC was by no means established.

Hope this helps, and good luck!


Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.