Oh, I also forgot to mention that she would not deny the presence of an OM. When questioned on the subject, she simply got mad and told me that this particular subject is no longer any of my business. 15 years together and who she is banging on the side is no longer any of my business?!?!!?!? Who in the hell are you kidding, my love???

Well, wife, a couple of nights ago I wished you luck in finding what you were looking for. Apparently, you have already found it so forget what I said...

15 years wasted. 15 years I will never get back. Isn't that enough punishment? No, apparently not. She also now has to fall into the arms of someone else to really complete the "fatal blow."

BITS, I am thinking about changing my name from FOBD to Phoenix. I will rise from these ashes!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...