I have to admit gr8, you're not sounding like yourself in this post.

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Who ever cares the least about the R controls the R.

Really? We all control ourselves which has great influence over our R. I do not believe either person really controls the R. We only control ourselves. Right?

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I continue to be mysterious when she drops the kids off.(Uncharacteristic music in the backround) I either dress to the nines or make sure I come from the gym so she sees me pumped up when she drops the kids off.

Will it get her attention? maybe
Will it make her have second thoughts? IDK
Will it make me feel good to know that she is missing out on a great guy? ABSOLUTELY.

That sounds like you are doing it for HER. We do for ourselves right?

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Right now it's a date friday night with an attractive Brazillian women.

OK, this part sounds good.


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