no more bolt

[Bolt]

well, all. I haven't been around for a while, mostly bc I've been super busy with a move across the country.

An update for the relatively new newcomers. After nearly 16 years of marriage, my W came to me in December and said she didn't love me and wanted a D. I got DB and DR and read like a mad man. We flew from San Diego to Ohio for Xmas and acted like a happy couple.

I db'd my butt off but a few weeks later, she flew to Ohio. She went to see if she could live a new life without me. She interviewed and found out that she didn't want to leave me but did want to go to Ohio.

We then made plans to move there as a family. I took a big chance bc my biz is mostly in LA. If I moved, it would be difficult to do biz but I wanted to choose family. We decided to wait until we moved 2 months later to do any work on the R.

Cut to last week. We packed up the house, moved everything and drove our two cars across country.

Just outside Denver, I crashed my car and totalled it. Nobody was injured but that left us with one car. She flew to Ohio while I took the kids (and 2 cats) with the car - 1400 miles in 2 days.

Sunday, we hung out at my parents house and it seemed that things were fine.

OH WAIT...let me add something...she had been texting, chatting, calling 4 different guys that she met on FB. These were all guys from her HS. I had bad feelings about it and we had a few talks about it. She assured me nothing was going on but I still didn't like it. I didn't know these guys and they shouldn't be talking to a married woman...

ok...now during the trip, we actually felt closer. She cuddled with me, gave me kisses and felt pretty close.

Then today...she CALLS me and says she doesn't love me, never will, isn't attracted to me, and wants a Divorce...

Needless to say, I'm still in shock. I thought she would at least wait a few months to drop that bomb. It seems she planned this alllll along. She simply waited until we crossed the border to say, thanks! See ya later.

I'm really in shock and have no idea what to do. I'm left in Ohio without my kids, my cats, my cars, my wife...

I never thought I could reach this depth of a low...