It has to be nice seeing that he is showing emotion. If my W showed any emotion in this situation, I know I would feel positive about it. I would then probably catch myself and remember what others have told me about reading into my W's feelings. Sacred and lonely is a bad place to be, and he knows how to resolve that. Don't pressure him into making that decision. Allow him to make it, because it is what he really wants to do.
Keep doing what you are doing. You are doing an awesome job in a real horrible situation. Keep it up!
Me - 33 W - 33 S - 9 months M - 3 years T - 5.5 years Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY PA discovered - 1/18/11 PA began - 3/22/10 Separated