CS,
sending that letter now will only set you back five steps. you are way too early in this process to be considering a letter like that.

I understand that you want everything fixed and back to normal.

Well Normal doesn't exist anymore.

You are just trying to get a reaction from her at this point and believe me when I say that it won't be the response you want.

Get ahead of her on the "Moving on curve" and you will see changes in her thinking.

gr8

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