I'm amazed that folks want to tear apart a situation that is working and is becoming very successful.

DB techniques that bring you to this point never go out the window. You do add to them, but you keep them in your repertoire.

Harrier is right in that no reconciliation, no marriage, is ever a 'done' deal. It's a living/breathing thing that needs constant nourishment. We need SKILLS to keep the marriage alive.

Denver is doing a great job at building and using his skills in his marriage and it appears his wife is gaining some skills as well. It's not a 'done' deal, but it's a relationship going in a loving direction.

Denver, I agree with your assessment of strength as well.


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