Wasn't going to post today but felt like I had some more progress. Family all went to the water park and everybody had a great time. At one time the kids were playing in the kiddie pool and W and I were sitting together. I put my arm around her waist and after about a minuet she moved over and sat in my lap. We sat like that for awhile and at one time my D44 joined us.
I have the kids with me tonight and they fell asleep about the last ten minuets until I dropped W off. I said to W that I have really enjoyed our time together lately with kids/her and just her. She said she too has enjoyed it and said:
W: "Its surprising that it took things getting so bad before we realized what we had"
H: "I agree, I tell myself that if I had done this 8 months ago we wouldn't be here"
W: "No, its not all you I took our M for granted"
I get to the driveway and walk her in (kids still asleep) and we have what I would describe as a extremely passionate long kiss.