Renee, I realize you called the number not expecting the XH to answer, but you did recognize his voice and you did ask about your son. This man has taken restraining orders for you in the past, has made it clear he never wishes to speak to you again, ever. So, knowing the facts; What in God's green earth ever gave you the idea to speak to him about anything? Do you have a right to worry about your son? SURE! Do you have the right to try to talk to your son? SURE! Renee, listen to me, please, do not under any circumstances try to talk to this man again about ANYTHING!! Btw.... You could have gotten your son's phone number from his girlfriend when you spoke to her on facebook.........