Gr8 I noticed the same thing with my W when we tried to recocile last summer. I was putting way more into it than she was. We were just a time bomb waiting to go off. I admit I did get complacent at times but still feel I was the one doung all the work. Like MWD says, it's like a teeter-toter, the more one person does, the less the other will. I have realized my mistakes and know if, with god's grace I get another chance, I won't settle for her being half-hearted.
