DueinMay: Wow I am really impressed on how committed you are for your marriage. Hope your husband realizes what he is doing, especially that he's becoming a dad.

One of your goals you mentioned was 'Help H find himself again'. While that is very nice of you, i wonder if that would actually backfire. Because WAW's are caught up in the resentment loop and everything you do for them, they turn it around and justify it more as a reason to run away.


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M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...