Actions speak louder than words Country. Your proposed letter is full of just words. The danger of sending you W anything in writing is that it may later come back to haunt you. Don't send it. Communicate what you want to say in that letter through your actions. Don't send it.
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I agree for now, however, if I can feel that I am truly at the point to move on, 100%, a clear statement to that effect may be justified. However, when or if that time comes, who knows how I will feel.
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It is a great letter, however are you prepared to really let go. Sometimes we want to send our goodbyes because in the moment we feel it is right. We feel we are ready then a few days pass and we are in misery again. My W and I have said goodbyes several times. Well guess what.................
Sleep on it for awhile and if in a week a month you still feel that way then send it.
The story of my life!!! At times I feel great. Ready to just move forward and not worry if she ever catches up or not. Other times I can still obsess over all of this. Definitely a lot of ups and downs through this process…
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
