I wish I could say I was actually at a place where this letter was sincere, but I wrote it with the idea that this is where I want to be. I need to continue to work until I can send this letter and actually believe every word. It is my motivation right now.
Dear W,
I have hit a milestone in my life. I am finally becoming the man I want to be. I look at my future now and I see all of the possibilities. I like myself again, it feels good.
I have told you before that I would still prefer to work on our marriage. I stand by that statement. However, I am moving forward with my life and I am committed to continue to improve myself.
Your choices in life are yours alone. I cannot help you with them. Until you can choose your family over your affair, we have no future together. As much as I accept responsibility for how we got to this place, you made the choice to jump off the cliff. You made the choice of an affair over your family. Running away rather than working on the problems that got you here.
I wish you all the best W. I sincerely hope you can find a way to address your own problems and begin to work on them. I can tell you, by doing so you will find peace. The hard work does bring happiness.
I will keep an open spot in my heart for you W. I truly hope you find the happiness you are seeking.
Good luck,
H
It is a great letter, however are you prepared to really let go. Sometimes we want to send our goodbyes because in the moment we feel it is right. We feel we are ready then a few days pass and we are in misery again. My W and I have said goodbyes several times. Well guess what.................
Sleep on it for awhile and if in a week a month you still feel that way then send it.
