Originally Posted By: Cat
DB101, Grit. DB101.

What can you control?


No so fast my friend!

I am not seeking to control.

I am considering communicating a boundary.

She is calling me. She is inviting me to do things with her. She is inviting my parents to do things with her. She MAY call my parents.

I am married.

The only difference is my W does not live with me right now.

If my W were living with me would this be acceptable to me or my W?

No f@cking way!

So why should it be now? Why does she consider it OK to do this?

Selfish motives? Lack of respect for me, my W and my family?

Does she apply the same morality to my marriage to my W as she had in our first M?

Does see me as that weak of a man?

Doesn't matter but it does matter to me that she is doing it.

Not control. But communicationg my feelings about this is what I AM considering.

What she does with it is HER choice.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am