For me, it would be AFTER reconciliation (I need a spell checker!).
Actually, I was specifically talking about after/during reconciliation. To me reconciliation, is a process not a single event and in many ways you never stop the reconciliation process.
It's funny people always complain about once people have success stories they never stick around. But here I am trying to offer a perspective and it gets slapped down with "every situation is different." Really?
You just kinda convinced me I was wrong to offer my 2 cents.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
