It's like the saying goes. For that which you have worked hard to achieve it will be much appreciated.
Things( or people) that we can't have, have so much more value.
Women like a challenge.
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Glad you came out the other side stronger and wiser.
There's no other option, it does take time though.
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Is there still an open spot from you if she ever does decide she can put forth the real effort to make things work?
That's the thing, so won't, that's who she is. She would rather live in misery than admit she was wrong.
I'm looking for someone who sees value in me and wants to be with me. I've gone out with a dozen other women since May and I have sharpened my skills of interacting with women. I know what I want and don't want. I feel I'm a great catch for the right person and I'm not settling for a mediocre R anymore.
If for some reason she wants to come back, my first question would be: What changes have you made? If none, then there's really no reason for me to even consider excepting her back. I don't want who she is now.
So agree with you.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.