I like that as well. In fact, I've mentioned something to that affect. I said 'I don't want you back until you want to come back'
Interesting story. My W and I went to MC starting about 3 yrs. ago and up to April of last year. I felt like I made a ton of changes, and changed significantly inside. I felt like she made very few changes. We were better for awhile, but she felt differently over time. I sometimes wonder if she would rather be miserable than make changes in herself.
