New and saying hello

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I do things with my friends all the time, they have been my biggest support system.
And of course I don't want them to shut him out, especially if there is a chance for reonciliation in the future.
Who am I to dictate who talks to whom?

But...I'll admit that I am feeling a bit territorial.
They were my friends first, but I know that kind of thinking is childish.
I could easily say to my friend "I don't want you to hang out with him" but
#1- she will do what she wants anyway
*2- that makes me look extremely possesive and insecure and that is a habit I am trying to break.