Hi OMW ...... yes, I have had a similar experience. In fact, I KNOW ... that the reason she hasn't moved out yet is because I stopped fighting her on it. I'm letting her own this. As I repeat to myself at least every hour I'm awake ... "she is her problem now"
I haven't offered to help her move yet ... because I'm not sure it is authentic to how I feel. I would help in a heartbeat, IF SHE ASKS. But, not sure that offering would be genuine. She hates asking for help .. but ... time to grow up, honey.
B.I.T.S
Formerly known as onStepAtATime Me:31 W:31 T:13 yrs M:8 yrs D: 20 months ILYBNILWY: 9/22/10 "I want a separation" 1/05/11