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[ironMan]

Well, OnMyWay ... congratulations .... you ... like me .... currently have 2 daughters. One that is and should be a child ... and the other one.

Yeah, you can divorce her if you want. If that's what you want .. do it. However, I'm afraid it won't make the anger or pain or anything else go away. In fact, it may be giving her what she thinks she deserves.

She's not an adult right now. Same as my W. She's acting out like a teenager.

She's going to go on this process of finding out who she is ... divorced or not. I think the best thing for you is going to be to detach so that you don't get taken along for the ride. This is going to be important whether you divorce or not.

So, re-focus on 1) being the best dad you can and 2) GAL. Its your life ... enjoy it. You don't get another.

Then, after you have some space away from the sitch, you can make an informed decision on whether to D or not.