DG..Is his phone use something you can control? No..so don't do this to yourself. I did the same thing with my W until I realized I can't control what she does. You are the only thing you can control. Concentrate on yourself and healing you.

Me: 39
W: 44
SS 24
SD: 20
M: 13
T: 15
Bomb: 2/16/11
EA: 2/14/11
Papers Signed 4/13/11
Divorced 5/13/11