My husband and I are separated. There are alot of reasons for the separation! We got together very young and never grew together or learned to be really honest with each other about what we were really feeling. It caused a lot of resentment and hard feelings which ultimately caused my husband to start an A.
He said that he was in love with the OW and that he did not want to work on our marriage. I'm devastated that he didn't even want to try as we have a child. I believe in marriage and I know that we just didn't put our marriage as a priority. We both thought that you get married and work things out the same as dating - totally wrong (hindsight).
We still see each other almost everyday and text and talk frequently. After he had been gone from our home for about a week we started to be intimate again. I am struggling with this. I really want to be intimate with him and we are having a great time! However, is this detrimental for the DBing? My husband is an extremely sexual person and I feel like if I don't continue with the intimacy that he will truly move on and have no interest in saving our marriage.
Will someone please help me with this? I want to make the best decisions for the long run. I'm going crazy second guessing myself.
